Heal an Unhappy Marriage

Every marriage has problems but not all couples manage their problems well enough to avoid an unhappy marriage.  If marriage problems are giving you an unhappy marriage, then you need to learn strategies to re-grow love instead of blaming your partner.  The Marriage First Aid Kit helps you to first understand the REAL causes of an unhappy marriage.  They’re often not what you think.  The kit also contains exercises and other practical tools to remedy different kinds of marriage problems.  You can expect to learn the following:

  • Common myths that can make an unhappy marriage even worse
  • Exercises to strengthen healthy parts of your personality that support a happy marriage
  • Destructive relationship patterns that create an unhappy marriage such as enmeshment, conflict avoidance, pursuer-evader syndrome and the delinquent helper syndrome
  • Strategies to manage different forms of conflict
  • A way to structure finances and chores to avoid destructive conflicts
  • Six types of conflict including the three types which are essential to prevent an unhappy marriage
  • Strategies to balance your relationship so that love can grow
  • Strategies and exercises to re-grow love and affection in an unhappy marriage
  • The hidden dangers to your relationship about which few people are aware

Don’t just take our word that this information is helpful.  Check it out for yourself.  Our online marriage first aid offers free advice about how to heal an unhappy marriage.  You can read Dr. Kaye’s responses to hundreds of people who asked him questions about what to do with an unhappy marriage.  You can also use the diagnostic section to identify subtle syndromes which may have caused your own unhappy marriage.  Read chapters from the main kit to decide if you want more extensive information about healing your unhappy marriage.

Are you in an unhappy marriage? Get your copy of the Marriage First Aid Kit today!

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say in a way that speaks to ordinary folks but never slights the enormity of science
behind it. This wonderful balance makes the book a vade mecum for my work as
well as my personal life.”


—William Mastrosimone
Emmy-winning playwright and author of The Woolgatherer, Extremities, Cat’s Paw, The Beast and Shivaree

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