CONTENTS
Diagnostics (Learn to recognize syndromes)
Explanations ( Access through Diagnostics)
Interventions (Access through Diagnostics)
Intimacy & Boundaries (Articles)
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Dr. Kaye discusses important relationship truths, Part 1 of 2
Dr. Kaye discusses important relationship truths, Part 2 of 2
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A few words about how and why this book was written
This chapter illustrates how our own fear of shame is the greatest obstacle we have to face if we want to improve an intimate relationship.
Chapter 2 - The Structure of Vital Relationships
Love based relationships do not have as much stability or resilience as do integrity based relationships. This chapter describes the strong foundation of a relationship that can stand the test of time.
Chapter 3 - Balance and Paradox
A vital relationship needs to be dynamic and not static. Opposing needs and emotional states must be kept balanced over time. This chapter unravels the paradox.
Chapter 4 - Nurturing Healthy Attachments
Relationships must be fed. It’s not enough just to feel. This chapter explains the fundamentals about how attachment needs can be effectively met.
Chapter 5 - Love's Hidden Assassin
A very common relationship killer operates far below our awareness. It leads to the numbing loss of attraction and affection.
Chapter 6 - The Other usual Suspects
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This chapter outlines the other most common relationship killers.
Chapter 7 - Freeing and Strengthening Your Hedonic Self
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If you’re starting to numb out and lose attraction, this chapter suggests what you do to start resuscitating the part of yourself that’s going dormant.
Chapter 8 - Defending Autonomy
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This chapter gives you tools to ward off covert inhibition that might otherwise strangle your affection.
Chapter 9 - Managing Conflict
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Different types of constructive and destructive conflict are defined. Strategies are offered for managing each type.
Chapter 10 - Sharing Power and Authority
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This chapter provides useful tools for negotiating tasks, structuring finances and dealing with in-laws.
Chapter 11 - Great Sex
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This chapter describes psychological elements of great sex as well as guidelines on how to get there.
Chapter 12 - Mapping Your Strategy
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This chapter discusses how to plan for change.
Chapter 13 - Conclusion
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Addendum: Message to a Daughter
Read the beginning chapters from Dr. Kaye's next book : When Love & Anger Got Married: Human Paradox & Spiritual Growth
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Blog - Read Dr. Kaye's blog about relationships and human nature
Coaching and Consultation (with Dr. Bryce Kaye)
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09/11/2009